Being the parent of a teenager isn’t easy. They can face a lot of problems, and you’ll need to be prepared to tackle this head-on. Here are some of the common struggles your teen may face.
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Self Harm
First, it’s important to understand how common self harm can be in the teenage population. It is estimated that more than 70% of teens could self harm at least once before the age of 18. Critically, the majority of these children will not get any type of psychological support. Part of the reason for this is that the signs of self harm are often missed. People tend to believe that children will self-harm in areas that are easy to see. But this isn’t the case. It’s not always a cry for attention. It can be a way of dealing with deep trauma. If you are worried that your child is self-harming, you need to make sure that they do talk to a therapist about what is impacting them.
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Addiction
Addiction can impact teens without parents realizing it. It is possible for teens to start using drugs without you noticing. They can do it in private. And they can ultimately keep it from you for years. There are however signs of addiction to watch out for. This includes sudden changes in mood, as well as more erratic behavior. A teen who is addicted may also start doing anything necessary to ensure that they get their fix. Recovery can be a long process. And your teen will often need a customized detox plan to get the best results.
Bullying
You might find that your teen is experiencing issues with bullying. The majority of young teenagers report that they have been bullied during their time at school. While it’s not always serious. And it can give a child thicker skin. However, you do need to watch for the signs that the situation is getting more serious. You should be talking to your child regularly and guaranteeing that they are coping with an issue like this. It can start to impact their mental health. Bullying has also been shown in the latest research to have long term implications.
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Eating Disorder
Finally, you might find that your child is suffering from some form of eating disorder. While this does affect girls, it can also affect boys as well. It depends on the person and what they are going through. Eating disorders are often born either out of the desire to take control of an aspect of their life or it can be due to the pressure that they feel to look like everyone else. You need to nurture your child’s confidence and ensure that they don’t feel alone. Again, if you are concerned, it’s definitely worth getting them to speak to a therapist about this problem.
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We hope this helps you understand some of the common issues that your child might face and the steps that you can take. If you explore the right options, then you’ll be able to make sure that you do get your child or teen the support they need before things get any worse.
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