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Mental Health

How to Help Your Kids Stress Less

September 20, 2024

happy boyWe tend to think of stress as something that only adults with our adult responsibilities, have to deal with but it is becoming more and more common for children, even those kids who are very young, to suffer from stress, and because they are young, they can find it much harder to deal with it, and regulate their emotions that we do.

The good news is, as parents, there are tons of things we can do to help our kids better deal with their stress, and to experience less stress in their lives altogether too, as you will see below.


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The Joy of Exercise

Now, before you roll your eyes and think, “Not another ‘let’s get fit’ lecture,” hear me out. One of the biggest benefits of exercise for kids is that it helps them to better regulate their emotions and lower stress levels.

Whether it’s running around at the park, jumping on a trampoline, or even grooving to their favorite tunes in the living room, physical activity releases those feel-good endorphins that can turn a frown upside down. Plus, it’s a great excuse for you to join in on the fun! Who says parents can’t break out the robot dance at a family dance-off? Trust me, it’s a memory your kids will cherish (and probably tease you about) for years to come.

 

Mindfulness

It sounds fancy, but mindfulness is really just a way for kids to be present and enjoy the moment—like when they eat pizza, they should really savor each cheesy bite instead of inhaling it while scrolling through TikTok.

Try introducing simple mindfulness practices like deep breathing exercises or guided imagery. You can make it fun by pretending you’re breathing in the delicious smell of cookies (because who doesn’t love cookies?). The more you practice, the easier it will be for them to calm their minds when they feel overwhelmed.

 

Get Crafty

Arts and crafts can work wonders when it comes to alleviating stress. Encourage your kids to unleash their creativity through painting, drawing, or even making friendship bracelets.

Not only does this distract them from whatever’s causing their stress, but it also provides a great outlet for self-expression. Plus, you get to admire their masterpieces (even the ones that look like abstract potato monsters) hanging on your fridge. Who doesn’t want a gallery of unique art from their little Picassos?

 

The Power of Playdates

Let’s not underestimate the power of social interaction. Playdates can be an excellent way for kids to blow off some steam and forget about their worries. Plus, you get a little adult time—win-win!

Encourage your kids to invite their friends over for a day of games, snacks, and maybe a little chaos (you’ll survive, I promise). Just think of it as controlled mayhem. It’s amazing what a bit of laughter and friendship can do to lighten the mood.

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Introduce a ‘Calm Corner’

Creating a ‘calm corner’ in your home can be a game-changer. This can be a cozy nook filled with soft pillows, blankets, and some of their favorite calming toys. You can even add a little sign that says, “Welcome to the Chill Zone—Enter at Your Own Relaxation Risk.”

When they’re feeling stressed, they can retreat to this space to unwind. You can provide them with activities like coloring books, puzzles, or even some soothing music. Just make sure you don’t accidentally set up a “stay out” sign for yourself when you need a break too!

 

Teach Time Management

Teaching your kids about time management might sound like a daunting task, but it’s easier than you think! Help them create a weekly schedule that balances schoolwork, chores, and playtime.

Having a visual representation of their time can reduce anxiety about getting everything done. You might even want to throw in a “no screen time until homework is finished” rule to avoid the inevitable distraction that comes with a YouTube binge. Trust me, you’ll thank yourself later when they actually complete their assignments without the last-minute scramble.

 

Limit Screen Time

Speaking of screens, let’s talk about limiting screen time. I know, I know—it feels like pulling teeth, but too much screen time can heighten stress levels. Set limits on how long they can spend on devices each day and encourage other activities instead.

Introduce them to the wonders of the outside world—nature walks, bike rides, or even playing hide-and-seek in the backyard. Just think of it as a way to unplug and reconnect with reality, one tree at a time. Plus, it gives you a break from hearing “I’m bored” for the hundredth time this week.

 

The Magic of Routine

Kids thrive on routine, and it can help reduce stress significantly. Establish a daily routine that includes regular wake-up times, homework slots, and bedtime rituals.

Routines provide a sense of stability, which can be comforting when life feels overwhelming. You can even make it fun by adding a little countdown timer for tasks, like “You have 20 minutes to clean your room—go!” The race against time can turn mundane chores into a mini Olympics event.

 

Encourage Healthy Eating

Now, let’s not forget the importance of a balanced diet. What they eat can affect their mood and stress levels. Encourage them to choose healthy snacks—think fruits, veggies, and the occasional piece of chocolate (because balance, right?).

You could even get them involved in meal prep! Kids love to feel like they’re part of the action. Just watch out for the occasional kitchen disaster—there’s a reason why we don’t let them near the oven just yet!

 

Don’t Forget to Laugh!

Finally, laughter is the best medicine. Make time for family fun and silliness. Whether it’s family game night, watching funny movies, or sharing embarrassing stories from your own childhood, laughter can reduce stress levels and strengthen your family bond.

You could even start a “Dad Jokes Only” night, where everyone has to come up with the corniest jokes possible. Yes, it might lead to eye rolls and groans, but it will also result in some serious belly laughs. And isn’t that what it’s all about?

 

In a world full of stressors, you need to help your kids relax, and these 10 ideas are all great places to start!

 

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Navigating Autism: Essential Apps for Families and Educators

August 12, 2024

mom and son looking at phoneParenting an autistic child is challenging, even if you, the parent, are autistic yourself. This is particularly true when your child is very young, and not yet on a schedule. Even when they’re starting to sleep regularly at night, through the night, you then have the challenges of trying to help them navigate a difficult, frustrating world without the tools to make it easier.

The good news is that you are not alone. There are many apps out there that can help you and your child throughout their childhood. These tools can help you develop effective strategies designed to help your child in their day-to-day routines. They can also help your child build essential skills like communication themselves.

There are so many apps out there, of course, which is why it’s so important to know which ones are right for you.


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What to Look for In Every App

Before we get into the specific autism app that can help you better parent your child, it’s important to understand what every app you use should include. This way, you can skip past the poor-quality options, especially if they will only hurt your child in the long run.

There are a few traits the apps you use need to have, in order to help you build a healthy, holistic, and supportive environment for your child. These are:

  • The ability to personalize recommendations, activities, and resources to suit your child’s specific needs.
  • The backing of licensed therapists with a good reputation in their field
  • Positive reviews from autistic individuals who have used the tools themselves, not just caregivers

Using tools that are advocated and supported by the autistic community itself, not just caregivers, is essential, since it’s those tools that will help your child the most become the best version of themselves. You will also want to rely on tools that can be personalized to suit your child’s needs and developmental journey, and are backed by licensed therapists (either in the creating of, or in direct support).

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Essential Apps for Families (and Educators)

The good news is that there are a few go-to applications that families and educators can use to help them care for and guide their children.

  • Autism 360: This all-in-one app works to provide everything an autistic child needs to help with their development. This is thanks due in part to its on-demand access to licensed therapists, with no appointment needed. A wealth of resources are available to help the child, the caregiver, and the educator provide a higher standard of care and guidance.
  • Proloquo2Go: Communication apps like Proloquo2Go is an augmentative and alternative communication (AAC) app, meaning that they helps children put together simple sentences by using pictures and symbols. With a library of over 14,000 such symbols, it’s highly customizable for each individual child. There are other tools, of course, such as Otsimo Speech Therapy and Speak Easy Home Speech Therapy, which are also designed to help children with communication needs.
  • Autism Tracker Pro: This app can help parents and educators track a child’s outbursts and behaviors throughout the day. This way, the parent can then start either understanding how other therapies are working, or make adjustments to their child’s routine, diet, and even communication methods.

 

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Identifying Mental Health Disorders in Children

Identifying Mental Health Disorders in Children

When I worked for a mental health non-profit, I loved working with the little kids. I often had the opportunity to work one-on-one with children as young as three years old who were displaying concerning symptoms. However, it was incredibly rewarding to watch their progress! When these very young children came to us, we were able to teach them coping skills starting at a very young age. These skills became a part of who they are, and their future became much brighter. Early intervention makes a world of difference in the world of mental health, but unfortunately it is not sought out often enough. Continue reading below to find out how to identify mental health disorders in children. …

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Filed Under: Autism Awareness, Early Intervention, Mental Health, Special Needs

Typical Sensory Issues And Proposed Remedies To Consider

July 18, 2024

stressed out teen with his head downSensory issues are common among individuals, particularly those with conditions such as Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), and Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). These issues occur when the brain has difficulty receiving and responding to information that comes in through the senses. Understanding these sensory challenges and exploring potential remedies can significantly improve the quality of life for affected individuals.


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Common Sensory Issues

Hypersensitivity

  1. Tactile Sensitivity: Individuals may find certain textures of clothing, food, or everyday objects uncomfortable or even painful.
  2. Auditory Sensitivity: Common sounds like a vacuum cleaner, sirens, or even conversations can be overwhelming and distressing, similar to tinnitus.
  3. Visual Sensitivity: Bright lights, fluorescent lighting, or fast-moving images can cause discomfort.
  4. Olfactory Sensitivity: Strong smells, whether pleasant or unpleasant, can be overwhelming.
  5. Gustatory Sensitivity: Certain tastes and textures in foods can be unbearable, leading to picky eating.

Hyposensitivity

  1. Tactile Hyposensitivity: Affected individuals may not feel pain or temperature changes and might seek out intense tactile experiences.
  2. Auditory Hyposensitivity: Individuals might not respond to sounds, even loud ones, and may seek out noisy environments.
  3. Visual Hyposensitivity: They might not notice visual details that others do, leading to a preference for brightly colored or flashing objects.
  4. Olfactory Hyposensitivity: There may be a diminished sense of smell, causing them to seek out strong scents.
  5. Gustatory Hyposensitivity: Individuals may crave strongly flavored foods or inedible substances.

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Proposed Remedies

Sensory Integration Therapy

Sensory Integration Therapy (SIT) involves exercises designed to help the brain respond more effectively to sensory stimuli. An occupational therapist typically administers SIT, aiming to improve daily functioning by gradually exposing individuals to sensory challenges in a controlled environment, or treating tinnitus effectively if that is what is needed.

Sensory Diet

A sensory diet is a personalized activity plan that provides the sensory input a person needs to stay focused and organized throughout the day. It includes a variety of activities such as:

  • Tactile Activities: Using textured toys, playing with sand, or finger painting.
  • Auditory Activities: Listening to calming music or nature sounds.
  • Visual Activities: Engaging with visually stimulating toys or watching slow-moving, visually appealing videos.
  • Olfactory Activities: Smelling different scents, using essential oils, or participating in cooking activities.
  • Gustatory Activities: Exploring different flavors and textures through varied diets.

Environmental Modifications

Adapting the environment can significantly reduce sensory overload. Examples include:

  • Tactile: Using soft clothing, seamless socks, and tagless shirts.
  • Auditory: Implementing soundproofing measures, using noise-canceling headphones, or creating quiet zones.
  • Visual: Dimming lights, using natural lighting, or employing visually soothing decor.
  • Olfactory: Keeping spaces well-ventilated and avoiding strong scents.
  • Gustatory: Offering a variety of foods with different textures and flavors, while respecting the individual’s preferences.

Behavioral Interventions

Behavioral therapies can help individuals develop coping mechanisms for sensory issues. These therapies focus on reinforcing positive behaviors and reducing negative responses to sensory stimuli.

Assistive Devices

Various assistive devices can help manage sensory issues. For instance:

  • Tactile: Weighted blankets or vests can provide calming deep pressure.
  • Auditory: White noise machines or earplugs can help mitigate disturbing sounds.
  • Visual: Sunglasses or visors can reduce light sensitivity.
  • Olfactory: Personal air purifiers can help maintain air quality.
  • Gustatory: Chewy tubes or oral motor tools can provide necessary oral sensory input.

 

Conclusion

Sensory issues are a complex and individualized experience, requiring tailored approaches to management. By understanding the nature of sensory challenges and employing a combination of therapies, environmental adjustments, and assistive devices, individuals can better navigate their sensory world. Early identification and intervention are key to ensuring that sensory issues do not impede personal development and daily functioning.

 

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Building Resilience In Young Adults Facing Mental Health Issues

July 17, 2024

woman talking to professionalMany young adults today are dealing with mental health problems. As they grow up and face life’s challenges, lots of them struggle with things like worry, sadness, and stress. But there’s good news. By becoming more resilient, young adults can better handle these tough times and even grow stronger.

This article looks at practical ways to help young adults build resilience when facing mental health issues. Read on for the insight!


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What is Resilience?

Resilience is the ability to bounce back when things get hard. Think of it like a mental muscle that helps people deal with stress and tough times. People who are resilient don’t just make it through hard times – they often come out stronger because of what they’ve been through.

People aren’t born resilient or not resilient. It’s a skill that anyone can learn and get better at over time. For young adults dealing with mental health issues, building resilience can make a big difference. It can help them face their problems head-on and come out stronger on the other side.

Getting to Know Yourself Better

Understanding yourself is the first step to becoming more resilient. This means knowing your thoughts, feelings, and actions. For young adults, getting to know themselves better can be a powerful tool in dealing with mental health.

How can young adults get to know themselves better? One good way is by keeping a journal. By writing down their thoughts and feelings regularly, they can start to see patterns in their moods and behaviors. This can really help them figure out what triggers their mental health issues and how to cope with them.

Another helpful technique is mindfulness. This means focusing on what’s happening right now without judging it. It can help young adults become more aware of their thoughts and feelings, which can help them handle stress better.

Building a Support System

No one should have to face mental health challenges alone. Having people to support you can make a huge difference for young adults struggling with these issues. This support system can include friends, family, mentors, and mental health professionals from a behavioral health system facility.

It’s important to encourage young adults to reach out and connect with others. This might mean joining support groups, taking part in community activities, or just spending quality time with friends. These connections provide emotional support, different viewpoints, and a sense of belonging.

It’s also important for young adults to know when to ask for professional help. Talking to a therapist can be really helpful in building resilience. A mental health professional can provide strategies that are tailored to each person’s specific needs and challenges.

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Developing Healthy Ways to Cope

When faced with stress or tough times, it’s normal to want to feel better. But not all ways of coping are good for you. Some, like using drugs or alcohol or hurting yourself, can actually make things worse in the long run. That’s why it’s important for young adults to learn healthy ways to cope.

Exercise is one powerful way to cope. Physical activity releases chemicals in your brain that make you feel good. Whether it’s going for a run, doing yoga, or playing a team sport, regular exercise can really improve mental health.

Creative activities can also be good ways to cope. Things like painting, writing, or playing music allow you to express your emotions and can be very healing. They provide a healthy way to deal with difficult feelings and experiences.

Another helpful strategy is practicing relaxation techniques. Deep breathing exercises, slowly relaxing your muscles, and imagining peaceful scenes can all help reduce stress and anxiety. These techniques can be especially useful during times of intense stress or panic.

Setting Realistic Goals

Setting goals is an important part of building resilience. Having something to work towards can give you a sense of purpose and direction. However, for young adults dealing with mental health issues, it’s crucial that these goals are realistic and achievable.

Start small. Encourage young adults to set daily or weekly goals that they can reach. This could be as simple as making their bed every morning or calling a friend once a week. As they achieve these smaller goals, their confidence will grow, making it easier to tackle bigger goals.

It’s also important to teach young adults how to break down larger goals into smaller steps. This approach makes big dreams feel less overwhelming and more achievable. For instance, if the goal is to get better grades, steps might include making a study schedule, asking teachers for help, or joining a study group.

Remember, it’s normal to have setbacks when working towards a goal. Help young adults understand that not meeting a goal doesn’t mean they’ve failed. Instead, it’s a chance to learn and try a different approach.

Developing a Growth Mindset

A growth mindset is the belief that you can improve your abilities and intelligence through effort, learning, and persistence. This way of thinking is crucial for building resilience, especially when facing mental health challenges.

Young adults with a growth mindset see difficulties as chances to learn and grow rather than insurmountable obstacles. They’re more likely to keep trying when things get tough and see failure as a stepping stone to success.

How can young adults develop a growth mindset? One way is by changing negative self-talk. Instead of thinking ‘I can’t do this,’ encourage them to add ‘yet’ to the end of that sentence. This small change can open up a world of possibilities.

Another strategy is to praise effort rather than natural ability. When young adults succeed, point out the hard work and strategies they used to achieve their goal. This reinforces the idea that success comes from effort and not giving up, not just natural talent.

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Being Kind to Yourself

Being kind to yourself is often overlooked when talking about mental health and resilience. Yet, it’s a crucial skill for young adults facing mental health challenges. Being kind to yourself means treating yourself with the same kindness and understanding that you would offer a good friend.

Many young adults are their own worst critics. They may be very hard on themselves for what they see as failures or shortcomings, which can make mental health issues worse. Learning to be kind to yourself can counteract this harmful tendency.

One way to be kinder to yourself is through positive self-talk. Encourage young adults to speak to themselves kindly, especially during difficult times. This might feel strange at first, but with practice, it can become a powerful tool for resilience.

Another aspect of being kind to yourself is recognizing that everyone struggles sometimes. Help young adults understand that they’re not alone in their struggles. This perspective can reduce feelings of isolation and shame that often come with mental health challenges.

Lastly, mindfulness plays a role in being kind to yourself. By observing thoughts and feelings without judging them, young adults can create space between themselves and their experiences. This can help them respond to difficulties with greater wisdom and kindness.

Dealing with Change and Uncertainty

Life is full of changes and uncertainties, which can be particularly challenging for young adults with mental health issues. Learning to navigate these changes is a key part of building resilience.

One way to approach this is by seeing change as a chance for growth. Every change, even difficult ones, brings with it the opportunity to learn something new about yourself or the world. Encouraging this perspective can help young adults face change with curiosity rather than fear.

It’s also helpful to focus on what you can control. In uncertain situations, there are always some things that are within your control, even if it’s just how you respond. Helping young adults identify and focus on these controllable elements can help them feel more in charge of their lives.

Developing problem-solving skills is another crucial aspect of dealing with change and uncertainty. Encourage young adults to break down challenges into smaller, manageable parts. This approach can make even the most daunting situations feel more manageable.

Lastly, it’s important to remind young adults that it’s okay to ask for help when facing big changes. Seeking support from trusted friends, family, or professionals is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Taking Care of Your Physical Health

Mental and physical health are closely connected. Taking care of your body can have a big positive impact on your mental well-being. For young adults facing mental health challenges, prioritizing physical health can be a powerful tool in building resilience.

Sleep is a crucial part of physical health that often gets overlooked. Encourage young adults to establish regular sleep patterns and create a relaxing bedtime routine. Good sleep habits can greatly improve mood, concentration, and overall mental health.

Eating well also plays a vital role in mental health. A balanced diet with lots of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins can provide the nutrients necessary for your brain to work its best. Encourage young adults to pay attention to how different foods affect their mood and energy levels.

Regular exercise, as mentioned earlier, is not just a way to cope but a key part of overall health. It doesn’t have to be intense – even a daily walk can make a difference. The key is finding physical activities that are enjoyable and that they can stick with.

Lastly, don’t forget about regular check-ups with doctors. Physical health issues can sometimes show up as mental health symptoms, so it’s important to rule out any underlying medical conditions.

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Practicing Gratitude and Positive Thinking

Developing a positive outlook can significantly boost resilience. This doesn’t mean ignoring problems or pretending everything is fine. Rather, it’s about finding the good even in difficult situations and maintaining hope for the future.

One effective way to foster positivity is through practicing gratitude. Encourage young adults to regularly think about things they’re thankful for, no matter how small. This could be done through a gratitude journal, where they write down three things they’re grateful for each day.

Another strategy is to practice looking at negative situations in a different way. This involves trying to find more positive ways to interpret events. For example, instead of seeing a failed test as a disaster, it could be viewed as a chance to identify areas for improvement.

It’s also helpful to encourage young adults to surround themselves with positive influences. This could mean seeking out uplifting books, movies, or music or spending time with friends who have a positive outlook.

Remember, fostering positivity doesn’t mean ignoring negative emotions. It’s important to acknowledge and process all feelings. The goal is to balance negative experiences with positive ones and maintain hope for the future.

Managing Your Time Better

Good time management can significantly reduce stress and boost resilience. For young adults juggling school, work, social life, and mental health challenges, good time management skills are essential.

Start by encouraging the use of a planner or digital calendar. This can help young adults visualize their commitments and avoid overcommitting themselves. It’s also a great tool for breaking down larger tasks into manageable chunks.

Teach the importance of prioritizing tasks. Not all tasks are equally important or urgent. The Eisenhower Matrix, which categorizes tasks based on importance and urgency, can be a helpful tool for this.

Encourage regular breaks and downtime. It might seem counterintuitive, but taking breaks can actually increase productivity and reduce stress. The Pomodoro Technique, which involves working in focused 25-minute intervals followed by short breaks, can be an effective strategy.

Lastly, help young adults learn to say no. Taking on too many commitments can lead to burnout. It’s important to set boundaries and prioritize taking care of yourself.

Wrapping Up

Building resilience in young adults facing mental health issues is a journey, not a destination. It involves developing a range of skills and strategies, from understanding yourself and healthy ways to cope to managing your time and thinking positively. While the process may be challenging, the rewards are huge. Resilience not only helps young adults navigate current difficulties but also equips them with lifelong skills for facing future challenges.

Remember, everyone’s path to resilience looks different. What works for one person may not work for another. Encourage young adults to be patient with themselves and to keep trying different strategies until they find what works best for them.

Most importantly, remind them that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Whether it’s talking to a friend, joining a support group, or seeing a mental health professional, reaching out for support is a crucial part of building resilience.

By focusing on these areas, young adults can develop the resilience they need to not just cope with mental health challenges but to thrive in spite of them. With time, patience, and practice, they can build the mental strength to face whatever life throws their way.

 

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8 Symptoms of Poor Mental Health in Teens

June 14, 2024

teen girl with head in kneesThe teenage years are marked by significant physical, emotional, and social changes, making adolescents particularly vulnerable to mental health issues.

Unfortunately, the prevalence of mental health disorders among teens is rising, with many suffering in silence. This article aims to identify and explain key symptoms that parents, teachers, and peers should be aware of to help teens navigate this challenging phase of life.


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1. Withdrawal from Friends and Family

Adolescents naturally seek independence, but a sudden or drastic decrease in social interactions with friends and family can be a red flag. Teens may isolate themselves, avoid social gatherings, or spend an excessive amount of time alone. This withdrawal can stem from feelings of depression, anxiety, or low self-esteem. It is essential for parents and guardians to observe changes in their teen’s social behavior and encourage open communication. Creating a supportive environment where the teen feels safe to share their feelings can help address underlying issues and foster better mental health.

 

2. Decline in Academic Performance

Mental health issues often affect a teen’s ability to concentrate, leading to a decline in academic performance. A student who previously excelled in their studies might start receiving lower grades, missing assignments, or showing a lack of interest in school activities.

Providing support and possibly involving school counselors can help the teen get back on track academically and emotionally. Additionally, psychiatric-mental health nurse practitioners (PMHNPs) can help support teens with mental health issues within school settings.

But how do PMHNPs help?

They provide comprehensive mental health services, including patient assessment, diagnosis, and treatment planning. They collaborate with school staff, including counselors and teachers, to ensure a coordinated approach to the teen’s mental health care. Moreover, you can look up the keyword PMHNP job description to learn more about how PMHNPs can help students in school settings.

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3. Changes in Eating or Sleeping Habits

Significant changes in eating or sleeping patterns are also common indicators of poor mental health in teens. For instance, a teenager might suddenly lose interest in food, leading to weight loss, or they may overeat as a form of comfort, resulting in weight gain. Similarly, mental health issues can disrupt sleep patterns, causing insomnia or excessive sleeping. These changes can further exacerbate mental health problems, creating a vicious cycle. Parents should monitor their teen’s eating and sleeping habits and seek professional advice if they notice drastic changes. Addressing these issues early can help prevent further physical and emotional health complications.

 

4. Unexplained Physical Complaints

Teens with poor mental health may frequently complain of physical ailments such as headaches, stomachaches, or other unexplained pains. These symptoms can be manifestations of stress, anxiety, or depression. Often, teens may not realize the connection between their mental state and physical symptoms, leading them to seek medical attention for what they believe to be purely physical issues. Parents and healthcare providers should consider the possibility of underlying mental health problems when faced with recurring, unexplained physical complaints. A holistic approach to health, addressing both physical and mental well-being, can be beneficial in these cases.

 

5. Extreme Mood Swings

While mood swings are a normal part of adolescence due to hormonal changes, extreme or erratic mood swings can indicate a more serious mental health issue. Teens might experience sudden outbursts of anger, prolonged periods of sadness, or unpredictable emotional reactions. These mood swings can affect their relationships, academic performance, and overall quality of life. It is important to distinguish between typical teenage behavior and symptoms that suggest deeper emotional struggles. Parents and caregivers should observe their teen’s behavior patterns and seek professional help if the mood swings are severe or persistent. Early intervention can help manage these symptoms and improve the teen’s emotional health.

By understanding and recognizing these symptoms, parents, teachers, and peers can play a pivotal role in supporting teens with mental health issues. Early detection and intervention are key to helping adolescents develop healthy coping mechanisms and lead fulfilling lives. The following sections will explore additional symptoms and the roles of healthcare professionals in providing the necessary support.

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6. Self-Harm or Suicidal Thoughts

Self-harm and suicidal thoughts are among the most alarming symptoms of poor mental health in teens. Self-harm behaviors, such as cutting or burning, are often ways for teens to cope with overwhelming emotions. Suicidal thoughts or attempts indicate a critical level of distress that requires immediate attention. Parents, teachers, and peers should be vigilant for signs of self-harm, such as unexplained injuries, wearing long sleeves in warm weather, or expressing feelings of hopelessness. It is vital to take any mention of suicide seriously and seek immediate help from mental health professionals. Early intervention can save lives and provide the necessary support to teens struggling with these severe symptoms.

 

7. Excessive Worry or Fear

Teens experiencing excessive worry or fear might be dealing with anxiety disorders. This anxiety can manifest in various ways, such as constant worrying about everyday situations, avoiding certain activities, or experiencing panic attacks. These fears can interfere with a teen’s daily life, making it difficult for them to function normally at school, home, or in social settings. Parents should observe if their teen frequently expresses irrational fears or worries excessively about different aspects of their life. Providing reassurance and seeking professional help can assist in managing anxiety symptoms and improving the teen’s overall well-being.

 

8. Decreased Interest in Activities

A noticeable decrease in interest in activities that a teen once enjoyed can be a sign of depression or other mental health issues. Teens might lose interest in hobbies, sports, or social activities, preferring to spend time alone or doing nothing at all. This lack of interest and motivation can affect their social interactions and overall happiness. Encouraging teens to stay engaged in activities they once loved and introducing new, enjoyable activities can help spark their interest and improve their mood. If the disinterest persists, it may be necessary to consult with a mental health professional to explore underlying issues and provide appropriate support.

 

Conclusion

Recognizing the symptoms of poor mental health in teens is essential for early intervention and support. Social withdrawal, changes in eating or sleeping habits, a decline in academic performance, unexplained physical complaints, extreme mood swings, substance abuse, self-harm or suicidal thoughts, excessive worry or fear, and decreased interest in activities are all critical indicators that should not be overlooked. Additionally, the presence of psychiatric-mental health nurse practitioners in school settings provides valuable resources for teens struggling with mental health issues.

Parents, teachers, and peers play a vital role in identifying these symptoms and supporting teens through their mental health challenges. Creating an open, non-judgmental environment where teens feel safe to express their feelings can significantly impact their well-being. Early detection and intervention are key to helping teens develop healthy coping mechanisms, manage their mental health conditions, and lead fulfilling lives.

 

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How Do Water Play Activities Support Fine Motor Development And Sensory Integration?

February 22, 2024

water tableWater play is an engaging activity that plays a critical role in a child’s development by enhancing both fine motor skills and sensory integration. Toddlers and preschoolers get to explore, pour, splash, and squeeze, which are not only delightful but are educational encounters. Through these playful interactions, children strengthen the small muscles in their hands and fingers, contributing to their fine motor skill advancement. The value of fine motor skills cannot be overstated, as they are essential for a child’s ability to perform tasks such as writing and self-care.

 

Unveiling the Benefits for Childhood Development

Incorporating sensory integration into water play activities allows children to process and respond to sensory stimuli in their environment. This includes the temperature of the water, the texture of items submerged in it, and the resistance they feel as they move their hands through the water. Sensory integration is a critical element of child development that facilitates learning and interaction with the world. Adding water plays to fine motor activities for kids will serve as an effective and enjoyable method that will give many benefits.

Key Takeaways

  • Water play enhances fine motor development and sensory integration.
  • Strengthening fine motor skills through play prepares children for future tasks.
  • Sensory-rich water activities help children interact with their environment.

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Exploring Water Play and Child Development

Water play activities offer multifaceted development benefits for children, particularly in refining fine motor skills and catering to sensory integration.

 

Benefits of Water Play in Fine Motor Skill Refinement

Engaging with containers, cups, and scoops during water play is instrumental in enhancing a child’s fine motor skills and coordination. A simple act of pouring water hones their grasp, grip, and hand strength, laying a foundation for everyday tasks like writing and dressing.

 

Sensory Integration Through Water Play

Sensory play with water introduces toddlers and preschoolers to a variety of textures and temperatures that help to build proprioceptive and tactile sensory input. These activities support sensory integration as children feel the water’s resistance and explore materials like rocks or sponges.

 

Key Water Play Activities for Development

Using toys and tools such as spray bottles and floatables, children learn about buoyancy and water properties. Activities like squeezing wet sponges or handling slippery objects enhance motor skills and sensory exploration.

 

Cognitive and Language Growth Via Water Play

Water play activities foster cognitive skills including problem-solving and understanding cause and effect. As children play and interact, they develop language skills, using new vocabulary to describe their experiences and the scientific concepts they encounter.

 

Safety and Supervision During Water Activities

Supervision is essential in any water-related activity. To ensure safety, adults should keep a watchful eye during these activities, whether it’s in a kiddie pool or with a simple sprinkler, to prevent accidents and reinforce safe practices.

 

Innovative Water Play Ideas and Resources

Pediatric occupational therapists often suggest water play ideas to aid development. Utilizing squeeze bottles, eye droppers, or adding food coloring and bubbles can turn a simple activity into an enriching experience for children’s development.

baby playing with water in bucket

Supporting Motor Development and Sensory Integration at Home

Incorporating water play activities at home offers a myriad of opportunities for enhancing fine motor development and sensory integration for toddlers. Through the use of everyday items and simple strategies, children can engage in fun activities that bolster their coordination, grasp, and problem-solving skills.

 

Everyday Tools and Household Items for Water Play

To kickstart water play at home, various household items can be transformed into engaging tools for water play. Containers, cups, measuring cups, and spoons are excellent for pouring and transferring, aiding in the development of hand-eye coordination. Implementing sponges and spray bottles can improve a child’s grasp and grip strength, reinforcing fine motor development.

 

Enhancing Sensory Experience with Simple Additions

By introducing a range of textures and colors to water play, toddlers can experience enhanced sensory input. Adding items like sand to the water can change the textural experience, while food coloring can visually stimulate a child. The addition of scents can also make water play an olfactory exploration, boosting sensory integration.

 

Creative Strategies for Incorporating Water Play

Creativity in water play is paramount in fostering interest and engagement. Water painting with chalk and bubbles can promote movement and stability, while imaginative games with toys that float or sink challenge problem-solving abilities. Activities such as filling a baster or using a spray bottle help refine motor skills and coordination.

boy jumping in puddle

Monitoring Progress and Adapting Activities

It’s important to observe a child’s progression and adjust activities accordingly. Simple adaptations might involve changing the size or type of containers to better match a child’s developing grip or hand strength. Monitoring a child’s response to different textures or tools can guide future activity choices to continuously challenge and develop their skills.

 

Consulting with Professionals for Targeted Play

For tailored support, consulting with a pediatric occupational therapist can pinpoint specific areas of development for further emphasis. These professionals may introduce targeted therapy techniques for sensory integration and recommend specific water play activities that cater to the child’s unique developmental needs.

 

Building a Community of Support for Child Development

Engaging with a community of fellow parents, educators, and therapists can provide a supportive network for sharing strategies and resources. This network can foster a collaborative environment where insights on child development, core strengthening, and proprioceptive input can be exchanged, benefiting not just the individual child but the broader community.

 

Water Play Conclusion

Water play activities are instrumental in promoting children’s development of fine motor skills and sensory integration. They provide an engaging environment where children can strengthen muscle groups and improve hand-eye coordination. Addressing sensory processing through tactile experiences with different temperatures and textures, children learn to process multiple stimuli simultaneously. Engagement in water play is a foundational activity that supports early developmental milestones critical to a child’s growth.

 

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When to Seek Out a Pediatric Social Worker

When to seek out a pediatric social worker

I recently had the opportunity to speak with Liz Disterhoft and ask her a whole bunch of questions about the field of social work. Liz received her MSW from Simmons School of Social Work, and she has been working as a social worker in community health for eight years. Currently, she is a social worker at a unique pediatric practice that utilizes a team-based approach to care. This experience made her the perfect person to talk to about concerns that many parents have regarding their children and social work services. Continue reading below to learn when to seek out a pediatric social worker.…

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Online Therapy for Parents

July 9, 2023

Parenting is a rewarding yet challenging journey that often comes with its fair share of stress and anxiety. As the demands of modern life increase, many parents are turning to online therapy platforms to seek support and guidance.


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Understanding the Challenges of Parenting

Parenting is undoubtedly one of the most rewarding experiences in life. But it also comes with its fair share of challenges. From the moment a child is born, parents are tasked with navigating a complex web of responsibilities, emotions, and demands.

One of the primary stressors for parents is the constant juggling act between work and family life. Many parents strive to maintain successful careers while ensuring their children receive the love, attention, and care they need. This balancing act often involves long work hours, demanding schedules, and the constant pressure to meet both professional and parental expectations.

Furthermore, the sheer responsibility of raising children can be emotionally challenging. Parents face a range of concerns, including ensuring their children’s physical and emotional well-being, providing a nurturing environment, instilling values, and guiding them through the complexities of life. The never-ending to-do list can leave them feeling overwhelmed and drained, making it difficult to prioritize their own well-being.

Recognizing the importance of stress management and self-care is crucial for parents. Taking care of their mental and emotional health not only benefits them personally but also has a direct impact on their ability to care for their children.

The Benefits of BetterHelp Online Therapy for Parents

Convenience and Accessibility: BetterHelp’s online therapy platform offers convenience and accessibility for parents. They can access therapy sessions from the comfort of their own homes, eliminating the need for travel and saving time. This flexibility allows busy parents to fit therapy into their schedules more easily.

Personalized Support: BetterHelp provides personalized support by matching parents with therapists who specialize in addressing their specific challenges and goals.

Flexible Scheduling: Online therapy offers flexibility in scheduling sessions. Parents can choose session times that work best for them, accommodating their busy lives and parenting responsibilities.

Confidentiality and Privacy: BetterHelp prioritizes confidentiality and privacy. The online platform provides a secure and confidential environment for parents to engage in therapy sessions, ensuring that their personal information and conversations remain private.

Comprehensive Support: Whether it’s managing stress, improving communication, setting boundaries, or enhancing relationships, BetterHelp’s therapists utilize evidence-based techniques and strategies to empower parents in navigating their unique parenting journeys.

These benefits contribute to improved well-being, increased resilience, and enhanced parenting skills. With BetterHelp, parents can prioritize their mental health and ultimately create a nurturing and healthy environment for themselves and their children. You can find out more information about BetterHelp by visiting HealthyMinded.

 

How BetterHelp.com Supports Parents in Stress Management

BetterHelp.com provides a seamless process for parents to get started with online therapy. Through a detailed assessment, therapists on the platform develop personalized therapy plans tailored to each parent’s specific challenges and goals. Utilizing evidence-based techniques and strategies, therapists help parents learn effective stress management skills, such as mindfulness, cognitive-behavioral therapy, and relaxation techniques. These skills empower parents to navigate their stressors more effectively and cultivate healthier coping mechanisms.

 

Here are some of the types of therapy available at BetterHelp that can help parents and families:

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): This is a type of therapy that focuses on changing the way you think about and react to situations. It can be helpful for a variety of parenting issues.
  • Family Therapy: This type of therapy involves the entire family. It can be helpful for addressing issues such as communication, conflict resolution, and child behavior problems.
  • Couples Therapy: Couples therapy is a type of therapy that helps couples improve their communication, resolve conflicts, and strengthen their relationship.

 

BetterHelp’s stress management program for parents takes a parent-centered approach, providing personalized strategies and techniques to effectively manage stress. By addressing specific stress triggers, building resilience, improving communication, setting boundaries, and promoting self-care, the program empowers parents to navigate the challenges of parenting with greater ease and maintain their overall well-being.

 

Bottomline

Parenting is a rewarding journey, but it can also be overwhelming at times. Online therapy platforms like BetterHelp.com offer a lifeline to parents, providing accessible and personalized support to manage stress and develop self-care skills. Prioritizing stress management and self-care is not only beneficial for parents’ well-being but also vital for creating a nurturing and healthy environment for their children. By investing in their mental health, parents can cultivate resilience, strengthen their relationships, and ultimately thrive as individuals and caregivers. If you’re a parent seeking support, consider exploring the benefits of online therapy on BetterHelp.com and embark on a journey towards a healthier and more fulfilling parenting experience.

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What to Expect When Visiting a Therapist for Your Mental Health

October 5, 2022

What to Expect When Visiting a Therapist for Your Mental Health

When considering a visit to a therapist, it is essential to know what to expect. There are many different types of therapy, and each therapist may have their own approach. However, there are some general things that you can expect when visiting a therapist. This article will discuss the different types of therapy, what to expect during your first visit, and how to find the right therapist for you!


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Different Types of Therapy

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT is a type of therapy that focuses on changing negative thought patterns to improve mood and behavior. This type of therapy can help treat depression, anxiety, and other mental health conditions.

 

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

DBT is a type of therapy that focuses on helping people cope with difficult emotions. This type of therapy can help treat conditions such as borderline personality disorder, eating disorders, and post-traumatic stress disorder.

 

Psychodynamic Therapy

Psychodynamic therapy is a type of therapy that focuses on exploring the unconscious mind. This type of therapy can help treat conditions such as depression, anxiety, and PTSD.

 

What to Expect During Your First Visit

During your first visit to a therapist, they will likely ask you many questions. For example, they may ask about your family history, your mental health history, and your current symptoms. It is important to be honest with your therapist so that they can help you in the best way possible. You will likely be asked to complete some paperwork during your first visit. This paperwork is important for the therapist to get to know you better and understand your goals for therapy.

 

 

How to Find the Right Therapist

Consider the type of therapy you need:

As mentioned before, there are many different types of therapy. Consider what type of therapy would be best for you based on your mental health condition.

If you are struggling with depression, CBT may be a good option for you. When diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, DBT may be a good option for you. If you want to explore your unconscious mind, psychodynamic therapy may be a good option for you.

 

Beware of “Red Flags”

When searching for a therapist, be sure to watch out for “red flags.” These are warning signs that the therapist may not be a good fit for you. Some red flags include:

– The therapist does not have experience treating your mental health condition.

– They do not have a license to practice in your state.

– The therapist is not willing to answer any of your questions.

If you see any of these red flags, you must keep looking for a different therapist. If you are not diagnosed correctly, you can undergo a personal injury. This includes, but is not limited to, emotional pain and suffering. If you ever experience this sort of treatment, don’t hesitate to get in touch with a personal injury lawyer.

 

Ask for Recommendations

If you are having trouble finding a therapist, ask for recommendations from your doctor, friends, or family. They may know of someone who is a good fit for you. You can also search online directories such as the American Psychological Association (APA) to find a list of therapists in your area.

Therapy can be a great way to improve your mental health. However, be sure to consider the different types of therapy, what to expect during your first visit, and how to find the right therapist for you!

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